Turning off

June 5, 2009 2 comments

“Downtime is not turning off” I tell myself. I have downtime after work, in between errands, when I make an effort. But my downtime is downtime, and I’m not “off.”

I was recently discussing this with a longtime friend; we both have very creative sides, and we were remarking that we have “downtime,” we don’t necessarily turn “off.” We don’t let quiet in. (There’s always something to do!) When we are relaxing, we are often occupied by books, movies, other friends. Why turn off? Why not? When do you ever?

Enough said. Today, I leave you not with a question, but a challenge: 5 minutes, turn off. See what happens.

By Anastasia Wasko

Forward Motion: How to keep up and achieve your goals in the nonstop world.

Marc A. Wolfe will be the speaker at a well attended networking group on Wed, May 27 in Morristown, NJ
It is free to come to the event, all you need to do is RSVP on the website.
The past attendees have been from varied business sectors including film directors, authors, designers to bank executives and lawyers.
There are limited spots so RSVP before there is a waiting list.

http://www.meetup.com/morrisbusinessnetworking/

Are you happy yet?

How long do you stay happy? What makes it go away or was it just your attitude toward it?How long does the value of a major success last in your life? Is it all about being happy? Are you ever really happy?

Lots of questions yet there are some big thinkers who challenge your perception of happy. I recommend that you look at this video and tell me what you think. He has some “evolutionary” points I differ on yet there is value within.

by Marc A. Wolfe

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Passion Equals Performance

I was recently honored to be published in NJ Performance Magazine. My article appeared in the same issue as Donald Trump, Newark Mayor Cory Booker, Zig Ziglar and Tony Robbins. Attached is a PDF excerpt of the Article.

So does Passion equal performance for you?

Please give me your feedback by e-mail or post something on my blog.

by Marc A. Wolfe

Networking with others is more valuable than you think

The act of networking accomplishes more than you may think. It gives you a chance to connect for business, it allows you to practice your skills of social interaction and it also allows you to view other people’s occupations in a new light. For example, I was at a networking event and met with someone who is in the creative industry. I have met many people in the creative arts and feel that I know a lot of what they do, how and why they do it, yet this time it was enlightening to see the insight into so much more. The person explained not only about the creative aspect but also about working with others, inspiration of thoughts and going beyond selling and more into human interaction. It exposed a side of creatives that most people either gloss over or don’t get to see. It was more about personal involvement and intention than about web sites and logos. It was a valuable conversation.

When someone is really connected to what they do, they offer so much more than a boring sales pitch but a window into why they are associated with their chosen field. Networking events allow you to see their occupations in a different light and potentially build a business or even personal relationship with them. Take the opportunity to go to a local recommended networking group. I focus on meeting where relationships are built, not sales and quota requirements. Here is a suggestion for one in NJ. It is called the Morristown Small Business and Entrepreneurial Meetup and it normally gets a good sized and diverse group. The events are free, well organized and have insightful topics. I hope to see you there.

by Marc A. Wolfe

Passion and putting people on the back burner

May 8, 2009 1 comment

Networking is the rage these days.  You can read about it on or in any media that is geared toward business growth.  It has always been there, and always known to be a powerful tool to grow your business or project.  At these types of events you can show off your Passion.  Done effectively, at the end of a night, everyone will understand who you are and why you are driven. Read more…

Learning from the Laid Off

I recently spoke at Pace University in NYC about “Putting your best Cyberface forward” I was joined by Communication Guru-ista Lisa B. Marshall and I learned as much as I taught. Many of the over 250 attendees were unemployed from the PR to creative to small business fields. There was a major commonality with the people I spoke to and it was: hopefulness and collaboration. Many of them started groups, blogs and other methods to not only stay in touch but also share wins and leads that could benefit many. To some this was an extension of their youthful social networking skills, but to others this was a new medium to create a safe zone of “not going at it alone”

What do we glean from this interaction with the people who were laid off and at LaidOff Camp NY? The most productive people have a desire, passion and focus on the goal of not only helping themselves but using organized cooperation. It seems they have an opportunity that goes way beyond just finding another gig. They are building relationships, communities and gatherings that will attract others who want to work with the mindfully unemployed. They are still seeking and are still doing, yet they have not depended on the government to bail them out, they are not crying on their couch waiting for their unemployment check, they are taking action and working with others to create forward motion.

What are you doing, employed or unemployed, to create forward motion and surround yourself with people who want to move ahead? Tell us your best ideas to stimulate a movement toward the goal.

by Marc A. Wolfe

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